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We hear from plenty of people that Two Sweets Bake Shop is their go-to resource for middle-life sex guide and relationships. That’s the most flattering thing we could imagine. But we also believe that the best education is a well-rounded one. With that in mind, here are other resources we recommend to help you learn more about it, as well as some related topics on D/s, BDSM, and fuckery.

Professional Help

Whether you need a kink-friendly therapist or you have legal questions, these are the resources we recommend.

National Coalition of Sexual Freedom (NCSF)

NCSF Kink-Aware Professionals Directory

Blogs to Follow

Many of these blogs are personal accounts of other people’s BDSM experiences, light or hardcore. They all have something to add to the BDSM conversation, and you’ll definitely learn something from them.

Molly’s Daily Kiss

Rebel’s Notes

Coffee and Kink

Vagina Antics

Websites to Check Out

So how are the websites different from blog? Well, usually they’re huge publications with multiple writers. They don’t always focus on the personal stories and usually discuss what you need to know.

Submissive Guide

A Submissive’s Initiative

Podcasts to Listen To

We know we’re not the only ones who love podcasts. Here are podcasts that we’re sure you would enjoy!

Kink Craft

My Life on the Swingset


Proud to be Kinky

Books to Read

We mostly read blogs these days but here is a (growing) list of books one or both of us have read and recommend. If you’ve read something that you loved, let us know and we’ll add it to our personal library.

Note: Some of these links may be affiliate links which means that if you click on them and make a purchase, we make a small commission.

The Loving Dominant by John Warren

Two Knotty Boys: Showing You the Ropes

Decoding Your Kink by Galen Fous

50 Shades of Kink: An Introduction to BDSM by Tristan Taormino

The Ultimate Guide to Kink by Tristan Taormino

BDSM – A Guide for Explorers of Extreme Eroticism by Ayzad

Tongue Tied by Stella Harris

This isn’t everything you could possibly know, and we definitely don’t think we have all the answers. What we believe and share is based on our own research and experiences. Talk to other people, and they’ll share something different and figure out what works best for you.