We hear from plenty of people that Two Sweets Bake Shop is their go-to resource for middle-life sex guide and relationships. That’s the most flattering thing we could imagine. But we also believe that the best education is a well-rounded one. With that in mind, here are other resources we recommend to help you learn more about it, as well as some related topics on D/s, BDSM, and fuckery.
Whether you need a kink-friendly therapist or you have legal questions, these are the resources we recommend.
National Coalition of Sexual Freedom (NCSF)
NCSF Kink-Aware Professionals Directory
Blogs to Follow
Many of these blogs are personal accounts of other people’s BDSM experiences, light or hardcore. They all have something to add to the BDSM conversation, and you’ll definitely learn something from them.
Websites to Check Out
So how are the websites different from blog? Well, usually they’re huge publications with multiple writers. They don’t always focus on the personal stories and usually discuss what you need to know.
Podcasts to Listen To
We know we’re not the only ones who love podcasts. Here are podcasts that we’re sure you would enjoy!
Books to Read
We mostly read blogs these days but here is a (growing) list of books one or both of us have read and recommend. If you’ve read something that you loved, let us know and we’ll add it to our personal library.
Note: Some of these links may be affiliate links which means that if you click on them and make a purchase, we make a small commission.
The Loving Dominant by John Warren
Two Knotty Boys: Showing You the Ropes
Decoding Your Kink by Galen Fous
50 Shades of Kink: An Introduction to BDSM by Tristan Taormino
The Ultimate Guide to Kink by Tristan Taormino
BDSM – A Guide for Explorers of Extreme Eroticism by Ayzad
This isn’t everything you could possibly know, and we definitely don’t think we have all the answers. What we believe and share is based on our own research and experiences. Talk to other people, and they’ll share something different and figure out what works best for you.